Welcome to
The Highbury Blog

The core purpose of this Blog is to share our understanding of what ‘Knowing Boys’ means in the teaching and learning context at Highbury. Bianca in the marketing department usually writes the blog posts, typically based on talks with staff at Highbury, and with the intention to be both useful and inspiring to our parents.

Our blog also includes an Eco-Blog section, which tracks our progress and accomplishments as an Eco-School.

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What makes Grade R at Highbury unique?

Added on 24/05/2018

Grade R is Highbury's biggest point of entry - what a boycentric and fun year it is!

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MySchool at Highbury: Motivating Boys to Help our Community

Added on 04/05/2018

Read about how your MySchool funds were used at Highbury over 2017 to help our community

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10 Traits of Highly Effective Families

Added on 27/02/2018

Our Highbury LAD Centre therapists share some parenting ideas and inspiration, based on a podcast...

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A Journey of Remembrance

Added on 09/11/2017

Highbury places memorial crosses at the graves of our Old Boys who gave their lives in World War 1

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Highbury has a new Twin!

Added on 23/10/2017

Highbury and Inchanga Primary School are excited to announce the start of a new twinning programme...

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Building Grit

Added on 06/10/2017

How to build resilience in your children when they are running on low

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Roland Lacock talks Parenting

Added on 04/09/2017

Roland shares seven observations about how parents can help their children, based on 20 years in...

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Tennis is our Passion and our Life

Added on 17/07/2017

Did you know that our Tennis coaches at Highbury have played and coached at Wimbledon?

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Straw Wars!

Added on 04/07/2017

Say 'NO' to straws - even for milkshakes...

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Why Tradition Matters at Highbury

Added on 04/07/2017

Belinda Willows reflects on the 'changing of the guard' at Highbury and how our...

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Added on 14/10/2016


We are so incredibly proud of our nineteen Grade 7 boys, all talented runners, who completed the Maputaland Challenge... what a tough challenge it is! The boys, in groups of five, endured sandy conditions along back roads parallel to the KwaZulu-Natal coastline and ran a minimum of 30km each in a relay format from Bhanga Nek to Sodwana Bay.  The total distance was an impressive 60km. Two of the boys managed to clock over 50km each!

Pursuing challenges is vital in a boys' life, especially in the years that he is making the transition from boyhood into manhood. Why?

  • The benefit of the challenge comes less from the outcome and more from the striving: the effort expended in the pursuit of a big goal are the real value.
  • Facing challenges results in a sense of greater strength, virtue and deep satisfaction.
  • Challenges provide an opportunity to prove manhood, which boys need to do over and over.

We encourage our boys to purposefully challenge themselves, because without challenges boys don't know what they are capable of. As Paddy Collins said after the event: "The boys rose to the challenge and discovered that they could achieve more than they believed they could."

For a boy to become all he is capable of being, he has to take on challenges that he is not sure he is capable of achieving. That is a scary thing because there is always a very real risk of failure but the benefits of taking this risk are that it creates an opportunity for him to become all he can be... and this is our greatest wish for each of our Highbury boys. "It was life changing," explained Tyler Gray, one of the Grade 7 participants, "It was exhausting at times but I felt very proud of myself for completing such a hard task." Kate Cole-Bowen, parent of James Rabie, mentioned, "My son returned with a sense of self belief and achievement coupled with the realization that he can achieve if he pushes himself."

Fun and friendship were also a big part of the adventure. "Banter and hilarious interjections marked each minute of this wonderful adventure," explained Collins. "The intensity of the challenge creates a camaraderie in a new and different way. Appreciating a beautiful part of our country and the exhilaration of running was certainly a highlight."

While this event was hugely beneficial to each boy who participated, the ultimate motivation was to fundraise for Highbury's two adopted rhinos, Tai and Baleka. Contributing to the welfare and conservation of two rhinos has been one of Highbury's priorities for the past eight years and the boys each fundraised independently and gathered an outstanding R75 000 together! A cheque will be handed over to Mark Gerrard, from Wildlands Conservation Trust, on 20 October.

We are incredibly thankful for the support of all our sponsors and our parents in particular Sir Fruit, Waterfall Nissan and Herman’s Trucking who donated items and aided in the logistics of the event, as well as everyone who sponsored the boys.